Sunday, December 28, 2014

Have yourself a merry little Christmas

We had a wonderful Christmas this year. We had lots of fun picking out our tree and decorating it, baking and frosting cookies, visiting Santa, and going into Boston to see the tree.

Picking out our tree, 2011 vs. 2014

Decorating cookies with our neighbors

That year we had to cut a couple inches off the tree to fit it in the house

Finished product

An ugly sweater party for Mommy and her friends

Our annual Christmas Eve party at Auntie Lou Lou's house.

Making sure everyone's list to Santa is updated

Yankee Swap

Waking up Christmas morning!

Reading his letter from Santa

A new bike for Nathan!

Can't decide which he loves more, the trains under the tree or the granola bars in his stocking
Weeks to prepare, minutes to destroy
 Going over to Nana and Papa's house to exchange presents with the rest of the family

Merry Christmas to all and to all a good night!

Sunday, December 21, 2014


Last year, as Christmas got closer and closer, Nathan started to notice all the shopping bags and began asking questions. I explained to him that Christmas isn't just about receiving gifts, it is also about giving to other people. I told him that we buy presents for all the people we love and then they get to open them on Christmas morning. He decided right there that he wanted to buy presents for all the people he loved. So I took him to the mall and into the dollar store and let him choose one gift per person. When we were done shopping, I took him out for a hot chocolate. At the time, Ryan was only about 7 months old and it was rare for Nathan and I to have one on one time. I remember thinking how fun it was to spend the afternoon with my little buddy, just the two of us.

His gifts weren't fancy and ranged anywhere from a plastic wine glass to a bath loofah. Some people got socks while others got chapstick. He was so excited though to pick a gift out for someone else and when we got home he wrapped them and could hardly wait until Christmas morning to pass them out. He was almost as excited to hand gifts out as he was to open his own.

This year when he noticed all the shopping bags appearing again, he asked when we would have our special shopping and hot chocolate day and so a tradition was formed. This weekend we went out, just the two of us to our local dollar store. He carried around a list of people he loved and picked one present for each person. This particular dollar store had an obscenely large toy section so the presents are a little more reflective of things he likes. His thought process was "I'll buy this for Lou Lou and then we can play it together when I go visit her." Next year before our shopping trip I'll be sure to sit him down and explain that when we buy someone a present, we buy them something they want, not something we want :)

So much of Christmas revolves around asking for presents and receiving presents and it is easy for kids to get caught up in the materialistic excess. And even though letting him buy presents that most likely will never get used seems unnecessary and extravagant even, I think it's great to encourage his excitement to give. He must have picked up a million toys and told me "Ryan would love this!" Spending the day alone with him is so much fun and we both look forward to the hot chocolate treat at the end. I love traditions and think they make the holidays so special so I look forward to this one for many years to come. Even when he's a teenager and wants nothing to do with me, I hope that I'll be able to lure him out for an afternoon of Christmas shopping with the promise of a hot chocolate and a cookie.

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Card carrying member

Today was a very important day for Nathan.

4 years old? Check
Able to write your name? Check

He met both qualifications so he got his very own library card!
It was so cute. The librarian rang a bell and shook his hand and officially welcomed him to the library. Exciting moment for him, proud moment for me,